I have been learning through this study that words spring up from the ground of our heart. Matthew 12:35 says, “It’s the heart, not the dictionary, that gives meaning to our words.” Also, healthy speech requires a healthy root. Matthew 12:33 says, “If you grow a healthy tree, you’ll pick healthy fruit. If you grow a diseased tree, you’ll pick worm-eaten fruit. The fruit tells you about the tree.” So in order to grow a healthy tree, don’t you need a healthy foundation? What if the soil around you is in bad shape? What if it is based on lies and deceit? Bad soil can result from insecurities, a failed marriage, a dysfunctional environment.

Just like a gardener should evaluate the quality of the soil of the tree he is planting, we also need to evaluate and analyze the foundation of our words. In my most recent relationship, I have come to realize that insecurities are deep rooted in my heart, therefore, they spill out in my words. It does not make for a beautiful tree…I can assure you! So as painful as it is to recognize my fruits, I know the pain will be far greater once the dirt is dug up! But like any process I must go through, I have to trust in the Great Landscaper that He will restore me and plant a tree that will truly reflect His beauty. Remember this…one word can ruin a career, destroy a relationship, and change history. So I ask you, are your words refreshing or are they reckless? Do they uplift and add benefit or do they crush and wound the soul of the receiver? Is it time for some new landscape or you simply satisfied with the fruit you display?

Love in Christ,

Nichole